A man a woman wants to change
She may not come from a loving family, never to get emotional in your partner search. If the partner does not know how to give her the proper love, she would try to change each other. She always felt the other side is not perfect, but still "firmly believe that each other's potential," will exhaust all means to the other into her need. If you refused to accept her "reform", your marriage will only come to an end.
2 A woman is not self-
She may never take care off yourself. When a person appears in need of care, she naturally put the focus of all investment in each other's body, to make every effort to pay for each other. She is willing to accept and bear the emotional world of anytime, anywhere in the emergence of the blame, guilt. She did not live for themselves but for others; so much she is dedicating a good girl said she was lost as self-love slave. However, marriage is an equal partnership, not the master and slave relationship. Come with a No self women, men bear the heaviest heaviest emotional burden. Unless you are a cruel man, to openly accept her "sacrifice." As for her own case, for some reason when a man away from her, she might collapse because they could not accept the reality.
3 A woman is not the bottom line
She never had a sense of security, and do things I never knew some restraint, can not be contented. Once she fell in love with someone, even though they do not belong to her, she will not give up, she would wait in the waiting even harder to do things beyond the bottom line. Comparing a woman to do things like emotional, because of reckless impulse, whether shopping or extremely crazy pursuit of pleasure. Marriage, she was more the outcome can not be abandoned to face, even though the situation to the end, she will do anything, to keep him at all costs.
4 a real woman refused
She never had self-confidence, even if happiness came to me she did not believe it. She doubts everything, including love, because she could not bear the psychological warmth of love. If a woman with such a marriage, you have to ready to deal with her sensitive and suspicious, and to bear all her life in the storm. Similarly, if the emotional experience ups and downs, she will only make one in a fantasy world full of life, away from the true reality. Like the ostrich, as in when in distress, his head buried in the sand, that do not face is needed. In fact, she is the courage to face reality.
5 a "masochistic" woman
She is willing with those emotions, life issues do not go well and keep people together, finding comfort from them, in order to cover up her own confusion and irresponsible. Perhaps because the growth process have experienced unusual hardships and misfortune, but she does not cherish wholeheartedly for her good "good" people. In her eyes, the quiet life too dull. She prefers to conquer a turbulent day with unruly people, and this all as a stimulus. This easy to derail a woman in marriage, because they will not stay together to meet the daily necessities of plain, but like again and again for fresh and exciting.
6, the parents could not escape the shadow of a woman
Not the same as the previous five, her life is not without love, but with the love of their parents too much, too much to give and sacrifice. And this love is endless in her eyes owed his life would not be telling the debt. This pressure to make the people will never grow up, never relax enjoy their own independent family life. If you entered the marriage with such a woman, it means never assumed a burden removed, and she will follow the model to define the parents get along with your marriage, make your house a "clone" of the family .
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